MINDFUL SPENDING - OCTOBER

October 29, 2012

This post is part of a series focusing on mindful spending and maintaining a clothing budget. For more information and explanation of why I started and maintain this series, please read this post.



October was an interesting month for me, purchase wise. For the first time, I actually gave myself a real budget on it. I've been following along since last month with Budgeting Bloggers over at Frannish and it really got me thinking about creating an actual budget. Most of the time, I just buy what I want and I know when there's either no more money or when I feel guilty about the amount of bought that it's time to stop. But what does that teach me? Nothing. 

Kimmie of Blue Paper Lanterns had a great tip - she recommended using the CashFlow Free app to keep track of purchases. I knew this system would work for me. If something is trackable via my iPhone, I will use it. So this month, I told myself that I would start with $200. I could receive more money one of two ways: returning items I had or making sales on Poshmark as I whittled down the contents of my closet.

And then, the month of friends & family sales happened. Columbus Day sales. Extra 40% off this or that sales. But quite honestly, I got several things to fill holes in my closet at drastically discounted prices. Mark my word, next year, I will prepare for October properly.

As the month went along, I was able to use CashFlow Free to track both the initial balance I gave myself ($200), add back in returns (a whopping $232.99 in returns, yikes - more on that later), and Poshmark sales ($266.00). And then each time I purchased something, I subtracted the amount. It almost became a game to me, of how closely I could stick to it. And I surprised myself. I actually did okay, considering.

But first, a bomb. I ended up spending a total of $806.02. I kicked myself more than just a bit for this. That number seemed really high, but the app forced me to take a look at where it had gone. Then I remembered the returns and incoming sales totaling $498.99. Whew. At the end of the day, I ended up spending a grand total of $307.33, $107.33 over my initial budget

Considering I got a pair of investment boots for that total, I am feeling less guilty. However...I do plan to tighten the spending next month. It is the holidays, after all, and time to spend money on other people.

As for what I purchased? The only thing I felt even a tiny bit dumb about is the new fox belt buckle I purchased from C. Wonder. Hey Lauren, didn't you buy a fox belt last month? Why yes, yes I did. But then I discovered the C. Wonder reversible belt with interchangeable buckle system. I decided to buy one of the straps, along with the new buckle. I know that while this at first seems silly, my thought process was that now, I can just buy buckles as they are trendy, but I will always own a great quality reversible leather strap to put them on. The ASOS version, while a good trendy piece at a good price, is cheaply made and doesn't look as amazing on as I hoped. But my new one, it's a show stopper piece. And so while I may seem momentarily crazy, I put my old one up on Poshmark and took the plunge on this one. I know in the end, a quality leather belt and well made buckle are better choices for my closet.

C. Wonder Fox Buckle $38.00  |  Joie Jackson Boots $300 (on sale from ShopBop's Friends & Family Sale)  |  Vintage Belt $15 (not pictured)  |  Kenneth Cole Taupe Boots $68 (price matched by Zappos during Piperlime's 30% off sale)  |  Kate Spade iPhone Case $7.99 via eBay  |  Forever 21 Tribal Cuff $3.24 (on sale in store)  |  Land's End Perfect Fit Corduroys $72.40 total (40% off purchase sale)  |  Target Infinity Scarf $19.99  |  BaubleBar Elephant Cuff $20.00 (with discount points)  |  Kenneth Cole Black Boots $78.40 (when on sale at Macy's)

And, if you're wondering why I bought the exact same boot in two colors, read more about the "miracle boots." 

CONQUER YOUR CLOSET - COMPLETE THE PUZZLE

September 27, 2012



Since you've cleaned out your closet, defined your style, and selected your key pieces to define your closet wishlist, it's time to put it all together.

Looking at my key pieces, I knew that I wanted to stick with my color palette, but add in a few items that could be mixed and matched. I decided to pick the one trend I love right now - burgundy - and go with it.

I knew that I would get lots of mileage out of a burgundy pencil skirt, and I happened on a great steal on this Marc Jacobs bag on Poshmark. A textured sweater in a neutral hue can be worn all year long in chilly San Francisco. And though I already have a trusty black basic blazer, I love the leather trim and the asymmetrical zipper on this one. Black ankle boots can be dressed up or down, and the comfy wedge makes them walkable.

But the real fun comes when you start mixing these pieces in to what you already own. While the combinations are infinite, I decided to show you how you can take just one new piece and add it to what you've already got. With just a single strategic piece, you can create a new outfit for work, and a new outfit for the weekend.

 


Four completely different looks from just two new pieces. As you can imagine, there are so many additional options. What combinations would you come up with? I thought it would be fun to let you play a sort of "mix master" game and see how many you can put together.




What's your favorite combination? What pieces are you adding to your closet this season to get the most mileage out of what you already own?

CONQUER YOUR CLOSET SERIES - COMPLETE THE PUZZLE

September 26, 2012



If you've done The Big Purge and used your pins to Define Your Style, now comes the really fun part - shopping!

This is not to be treated as a free for all, buy as much as you want, replace as many things as you purged sort of shopping trip. Instead, this should be treated as strategic. What pieces are you really missing to build the outfits you admire on your style board?

Begin by taking an inventory of everything you own. Yes, everything. This is how you'll avoid purchasing a second black pencil skirt or a pair of boots similar to ones you already own. Admit it. You've done it. I'm guilty of it too. We all are. But let's stop that today!

After you inventory your closet, define your key pieces. For me, these are the accessories and clothing that I knew I could mix and re-mix to make several outfits with. In fact, I could be content with just these items. But since I'm looking to step things up a notch, I'll show you how you can take your key pieces, add a few strategic purchases, and people will think you bought a whole new wardrobe.




Tomorrow I'll show you how I used these pieces, along with my defined style + my vision board to map strategic purchases I needed to add in - and how to maximize those selections.

What pieces do you have in your closet that you wear again and again?


SHOP MY KEY PIECES

Blouse: http://ow.ly/hu7Bq
Watch: http://ow.ly/hu7EV
Link Bracelet: http://ow.ly/hu7uz
Taupe Ankle Boots: http://ow.ly/hu7Kn
Dark Skinny Jeans: http://ow.ly/hu7O2
Riding Boots: http://ow.ly/hu7SE
Black Bag (Exact): http://ow.ly/hu89b
Pencil Skirt (super clearance!): http://ow.ly/hu8hO
Tees (Exact): http://ow.ly/hu8rz
Stripe Tee: http://ow.ly/hu8ZM
Glasses (Exact): http://ow.ly/hu9jB
Black Pumps: http://ow.ly/hu9R9
Brown Bag (Exact): http://ow.ly/hu9us

CONQUER YOUR CLOSET SERIES - DEFINE YOUR STYLE

September 18, 2012



Style is a very personal thing, and for me, it's something that's in constant flux. Things I preferred a year ago are vastly different from things I prefer today. As I look at my pins, I notice an evolution from the beginning of this year until now. My pins go from very feminine, to less feminine, to very tailored with a masculine edge.

Over the last month, I've made a point to pin intentionally, to only pin outfits to this board that I would actually wear. As I did, I noticed that patterns began to emerge. This roadmap guided me when I did The Big Purge, and I'll show you how it helped me make strategic purchases in next week's "Complete The Puzzle."




More than any other pattern, I noticed that I'm particularly drawn to outfits with a skinny bottom, paired with heels or boots, and loose tops like blazers, leather jackets, capes, and tunics. For my body type, this works best since I am both petite and curvy. Wide leg pants or flowing bottoms tend to make my bottom half look heavier than it is. By reversing the proportions, my outfit makes me look thinner.




Living in San Francisco requires a coat year round, and usually a scarf too. I noticed multiple pins of classically tailored coats like trenches and car coats with large, chunky scarves. And if you happened to notice, both of these outfits are also paired with skinny bottoms. Catching the patterns?




Nearly every outfit is also a combination of something masculine with something feminine. This was a lightbulb moment for me. It's how I prefer my interiors, why wouldn't it be how I prefer my wardrobe? I tend to lean towards the gender neutral side, but with a bit of warmth (or in this case, feminine) thrown in. A boyish tee is paired with bold baubles, heels, and a lace skirt. A flowing maxi dress is paired with a tailored bag and a leather blazer.

Now you try! I think that Pinterest is the best way to keep track of what you like. It's an easy visual reference to pull up on your phone or iPad while shopping, and you can see the link to the original source which often times has purchasing information. If you're hands on, you can save photos from magazines or catalogs and paste them into a notebook to carry with you and keep in your closet - my mom and I did this as early as 2002!

Once you lay things out in one, easy to see format, you'll begin to notice your own patterns. Try and examine each outfit. Ask yourself the following:

What do I like most about this?

Is there anything I don't like about this? (The don't can be just as telling as the do, and often times helps you refine your style further.)

Is this practical for my current life situation | office dress code | body type?

Do I own pieces of this look already?

What pattern do I love, but don't own?

Once you answer these questions, you can "Complete The Puzzle." The next post in the series will show you how to use this exercise to create a strategic shopping list to build the looks you've collected.

Is there a particular trend you find yourself pinning over and over again? Or a celebrity whose style you admire? (My faves are Rosie Huntington-Whitley and Gwyneth Paltrow!) Tell me below!

CONQUER YOUR CLOSET

September 17, 2012



Hello and Happy Monday!

I'm excited to announce today the continuation of the "Conquer Your Closet" Series - started here. What I realized, in writing the original post, is that so many of you face the same problems as I do.

You're stuck every morning looking at your closet, bemoaning that you have nothing to wear, yet your closet is packed to the seams. 

You have really great individual pieces, but don't know how to put them together.

You pin outfit inspiration all day long to Pinterest, but don't know how to replicate the looks in real life.

How we look is an extension of how we feel. I've mentioned often that working from home presents another type of challenge - who am I dressing up for, anyway? But at the end of the day, I know that when I feel pulled together, I feel I can conquer the world.

As I've slowly been working my way through my own closet clean-out, I can tell you that I've learned more about myself in this month than I ever expected. My clothes and accessories that fill my closet these days are a natural extension of my personality. They're things that look good on my body in its current state instead of things I hope I'll be able to pull off one day, or things that don't flatter my figure.

But what I also learned is that the process is more emotional than I ever expected. It feels thrilling to purchase new things that fit your taste, but it can be downright depressing to create a pile of cast-offs and see money wasted on things that just don't work for you. It's a roller coaster, but I hope that by sharing my process with you, it will end up being rewarding for you.

In this series, you'll learn:

The Big Purge - It all begins with a deep dive into your closet.

Define Your Style - How to create a roadmap for your personal style.

Complete The Puzzle [ Part One ] [ Part Two ] - Strategic shopping for pieces that fulfill your style vision.

All Together Now - Organize your closet and put an end to the "nothing to wear" blues.

Starting tomorrow, each Tuesday I'll be sharing another part of the series. If you haven't read The Big Purge - go! We'll be talking about how to Define Your Style tomorrow.

Which part of the series are you looking forward to most?


IMAGE | CURRENT/ELLIOTT STUDIO VIA MATCHBOOK MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2012 ISSUE
 
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